When you’re getting ready for college, you have to make a lot of decisions. Where to go? What scholarships should I apply for? Should I join an Honors program? Can I really afford this? Close to home or far away? Laptop made for gaming or one made for studying? Yes, yes, these are all very important questions. But, the one that gave us the most trouble was deciding whether or not we wanted to live on campus.
We weren’t extremely enthusiastic about having a dorm room, but Appalachian has a freshman policy that you must stay on campus your freshman year. And I’m glad we did! When it’s time for you to make this decision, you really should stay on campus at least one semester. It cuts out a lot of stress and travel time. Not to mention the fact that you immediately make several new friends: your roommate(s), neighbors, and hall mates. A dorm room may freak you out, but don’t worry; it isn’t as bad as it looks.
Just be sure to choose your dorm building carefully. If the college you finally choose to go to has options, check them out before hand. Some dorm buildings or floors may be designed for people with certain interests, majors or hobbies. Try to get into a dorm or hall where you will be surrounded by people that you have something in common with.
And be roommate picky! Don’t just get stuck with whomever your college tries to put you with. Search out a roommate ahead of time—someone from your school, someone you meet at orientation, even someone you find on Facebook. Some colleges offer to let you take a quiz (kind of like a personality test) that will match you with similar roommates. Do it!
Once you’re all moved in, set the ground rules. This is an important part of making the on campus experience go smoothly. You are going to be with your roommate for a while, so start off on the right foot. Jay and I knew each other pretty well (duh!) when we started rooming together. But, being sisters, we were doomed to fight from the start. What really helped us was the roommate agreement form the university made us fill out. It was basically a Roommate Contract that laid out the rules for us. And now we’ve made you one!
Your college may hand out one, but Jay and I feel like this one is a bit more comprehensive. We included the usual questions as well as some that resolves issues the two of us faced later on. We suggest talking to your roommate about it before you move in. If your university gives you one, fill it out. And then you can use this one and keep it between the two of you. Try filling it out the day you move in and getting it signed and ready. Then redo it at the start of each semester. This way, if your schedules changes or you feel like you need to try something new, you can work it all out.
To download a blank copy of Em and Jay’s Roommate Contract, simply click
here! We’ve filled out an example contract below.
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